On Mon, 26 Jan 2026 10:45:22 -0800 Bobby Eshleman wrote:

I'm onboard with improving what we have since it helps all of us
currently using this API, though I'm not opposed to discussing a
redesign in another thread/RFC. I do see the attraction to locating the
core logic in one place and possibly reducing some complexity around
socket/binding relationships.

FWIW regarding nl, I do see it supports rtnl lock-free operations via
'62256f98f244 rtnetlink: add RTNL_FLAG_DOIT_UNLOCKED' and routing was
recently made lockless with that. I don't see / know of any fast path
precedent. I'm aware there are some things I'm not sure about being
relevant performance-wise, like hitting skb alloc an additional time
every release batch. I'd want to do some minimal latency comparisons
between that path and sockopt before diving head-first.

FTR I'm not really pushing Netlink specifically, it may work it 
may not. Perhaps some other ioctl-y thing exists. Just in general
setsockopt() on a specific socket feels increasingly awkward for 
buffer flow. Maybe y'all disagree.

I thought I'd clarify since I may be seen as "Mr Netlink Everywhere" :)