OK, I've looked at your kernel messages, and it looks like the problem
comes from this:

	/* Debugging code just in case the in-memory inode orphan list
	 * isn't empty.  The on-disk one can be non-empty if we've
	 * detected an error and taken the fs readonly, but the
	 * in-memory list had better be clean by this point. */
	if (!list_empty(&sbi->s_orphan))
		dump_orphan_list(sb, sbi);
	J_ASSERT(list_empty(&sbi->s_orphan));   <====

This is a "should never happen situation", and we crash so we can
figure out how we got there.  For production kernels, arguably it
would probably be better to print a message and a WARN_ON(1), and then
not force a crash from a BUG_ON (which is what J_ASSERT is defined to
use).

Looking at your messages and the ext4_delete_inode() warning, I think
I know what caused it.  Can you try this patch (attached below) and
see if it fixes things for you?

quoted

I already reported such issues some time ago, but my reports were
not too much welcomed, so I gave up. Anyway, anybody can easily do
my tests at any time.

My apologies.  I've gone through the linux-ext4 mailing list logs, and
I can't find any mention of this problem from any username @vlnb.net.
I'm not sure where you reported it, and I'm sorry we dropped your bug
report.  All I can say is that we do the best that we can, and our
team is relatively small and short-handed.

							- Ted

From a190d0386e601d58db6d2a6cbf00dc1c17d02136 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001
From: Theodore Ts'o <tytso@mit.edu>
Date: Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:54:48 -0400
Subject: [PATCH] patch explicitly-drop-inode-from-orphan-list-on-ext4_delete_inode-failure

---
 fs/ext4/inode.c |    1 +
 1 files changed, 1 insertions(+), 0 deletions(-)

diff --git a/fs/ext4/inode.c b/fs/ext4/inode.c
index a52d5af..533b607 100644
--- a/fs/ext4/inode.c
+++ b/fs/ext4/inode.c

@@ -221,6 +221,7 @@ void ext4_delete_inode(struct inode *inode)
 				     "couldn't extend journal (err %d)", err);
 		stop_handle:
 			ext4_journal_stop(handle);
+			ext4_orphan_del(NULL, inode);
 			goto no_delete;
 		}
 	}

-- 
1.7.0.4